Cross-dressing

Involves one or both partners wearing clothing stereotypically associated with the other gender. This can be a fetish on its own or part of power play (e.g. “sissy” kink where a male sub wears feminine lingerie as humiliation, only if consensually enjoyed). Or it can simply be erotic to see your partner in a new light (a woman might find it hot if her man can confidently rock some lace panties, or vice versa). If you both are comfortable, swapping clothes or incorporating one piece (like the male partner in heels, the female in a blazer and tie) can be surprisingly arousing because it breaks gender norms and feels “taboo” in a way. Clear it with your partner first to avoid any discomfort.