The Universe of Pleasure

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Fantasy journal exchange

Each of you writes a short fantasy on your own (could be a paragraph or just bullet points of a scenario you’d like). Swap journals or documents and read each other’s fantasies. This can either just be arousing to know, or you can then incorporate elements of your partner’s fantasy in your next session. It’s a low-pressure way to share desires that might be easier than speaking them. You can keep adding to these journals over time to see how fantasies evolve.