Filming roleplay

Set up a camera (or phone) on a tripod but don’t necessarily hit record, or record with the promise to delete after viewing. The idea that you’re performing for a camera changes the vibe – you might exaggerate moans or try naughtier positions “for the camera.” If comfortable, watch the footage together after as its own erotic experience (seeing yourselves can be eye-opening and arousing). Just be extremely careful with any recordings: have clear consent on what’s recorded, that it’s kept private, and agree to delete if anyone feels uneasy later. This can fulfill both exhibition (performing) and voyeur (later watching) desires safely.