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“Nearly caught” setups – For the adventurous

Simulate being in a place you might be seen (without actually exposing yourselves to non-consenting people). For instance, have sex on your private balcony or backyard where there’s a slight chance a neighbor could hear or a distant chance someone could see a silhouette – that risk can spike adrenaline. Or pretend your housemate might come home any minute, so you have to be quick and quiet. If you’re alone, you can even roleplay “Oh no, someone’s coming!” to get the heart racing, then duck out of sight laughing. It’s the feeling of public sex without the legal issues.