Performative sex without saving
You can simulate being cam performers with zero recording. For instance, set up a laptop with webcam on but not actually streaming anywhere (or stream to a private server that only you two access). Just the little green light and the camera lens can psychologically make you act spicier, as if an invisible audience is there. You could also join an adult cam site as viewers and do stuff in front of your own computer as if copying the exhibitionists you see, but not actually on camera yourself. The imagination can sometimes be enough – you feel “we’re doing this on camera!” even if it’s not being saved or seen. It’s a mind hack for exhibitionists who don’t want real exposure.