Sex parties or dungeons

Going to a sex party or BDSM dungeon where others are present (maybe even participating) can be a huge turn-on for exhibitionists or voyeurs. You don’t even have to touch others; some couples go and just have sex in the same room as others for the thrill. If not comfortable going out, you can simulate the vibe at home by adjusting lighting/ music and pretending there are others around (“Don’t be too loud or they’ll all watch us!”). The idea is an audience that’s actually real. In actual parties, have signals with your partner for when to invite someone or to politely refuse. Start by just observing if new – watching others can be sexually charged and you might go home and reenact what you saw.