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Sex tapes

As mentioned, filming your intercourse or foreplay. Some find performing for the camera highly exciting and the idea of possibly someone seeing it one day (even if they won’t) adds spice. If you do record, discuss exactly how it’s stored (if digital, perhaps in a secure drive or immediately transferred and deleted from phone), who has access, and ideally agree to delete it after watching together unless both explicitly want to keep it. The process of setting up angles and lights for the camera can also be fun preluding. You can also do POV style (one holds the camera while doing things). It’s an advanced trust exercise – the goal is to enjoy the naughty feeling of “being pornstars” without any actual breach of privacy.